For many people New Years ushers in a set of new plans, resolutions or habits to establish. I haven't done that for years, although I do like to look realistically at myself and try to make changes that are needed. Last week, I was visiting a blog and she posted about Goals. In an effort to look at my life and see what I need to accomplish, I decided to write down some things for the New Year.
~Purge unnecessary items and organize
~Pack up and give away items no longer needed
~Organize and pack for our move
~Get the yard in shape
~Spend more time pursuing hobbies with hubby
~Continue to walk a minimum of 4 times a week
~Continue to bike with my BFF 4-5 times a week, minimum of 8 miles a day
~Resist buying items for the new house that are not a necessity
~Embrace loving family and friends
~Pursue relationships that build up and don't tear down. Be the friend that I want others to be to me.
~Stand up for myself when other people get in my face and yell or swear at me; let them know this is not o.k.-this does not refer to my family,they would never treat me like that!
~Draw boundaries when necessary, it will grow a healthier friendship.
~I will no longer allow others to bully, swear, yell at me because I am not meeting their expectations.
~Do not put myself in the situation that will provoke another's bullying; walk away when necessary
~Respect myself; if I heard someone treating a loved one like the way I've been talked to, I would be there defending them-so why not do that for myself
~Forgive those who have offended and hurt me
~Extend mercy and grace whenever possible
~Try to model the way Jesus lived. Let my life model His Love poured out to others; realize this does not mean being a doormat for others
~Love as if it is my last day and let others know how much I love and value them
~Again, be the friend I want others to be to me. Shower love on others, they may not have another person that does
Please know that I am not sharing these to whine or complain, but to remind myself that I can choose what is acceptable to me and what is definitely not.
Seize the day, dear friends. I hope to see your goals for this New Year!
Joy to you!
Noreen and an ever present shadow, Hunter
Sleepy Sunday Selfie Boy
31 minutes ago
LOL you read our thoughts. We were just having a little clear out to give to our local charity shop. Hope you have success with your resolutions. Have a terrific Tuesday.
ReplyDeleteBest wishes Molly
Phew,what a list! Can I add one?
ReplyDelete"Be gentle on yourself"
Sending lotsaluv
C
Wow, that is a big list! Are you doing it all at once or breaking it up?
ReplyDeleteYour Pals,
Murphy & Stanley
Great list, I think I may steal a few of those :) Stay warm!!
ReplyDeleteI have a mental list for myself and wrote down a few too...the bullying thing sounds scary....stay safe friend.
ReplyDeleteIt is always helpful to write down what we want to accomplish. Think I need to do the same! Happy day, Noreen!
That is a great list! You are certainly going to be busy....way to go! I definitely have to do those first two this year, I'm so tired of neglecting my house...darn computer!
ReplyDeleteBe kind to yourself and have fun with the new house. I know you are in for a year of transitions and that can be difficult and over powering, but you can do this with prayer and understanding that its just a transition and soon enough things will settle into place and you will find your new groove.
ReplyDeleteWhat a job just packing for the move and finding things you forgot you had. It can be a fun time of exploration and you never know what you might learn about yourself in it. ;)
That is a very aggressive list Noreen! Good luck with all of those!! Hugs to Hunter! xo Jeanne, Chloe and LadyBug
ReplyDeleteGood list. Praying for a blessed 2014.
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